Role of Grandparents in our life

 Q. Given the present scenario of nuclear family system, dual- incomes and preoccupied parents, grandparents can be the perfect role models, caregivers and nurtures. They not only provide intergenerational learning opportunities but also facilitate balanced upbringing of their grandchildren. Taking ideas from the unit- ‘Relationships’ and using your own ideas write an article for your school magazine on the topic ‘Role of Grandparents in our life’. You are Ishaan/Ishaani.

Role of Grandparents in our life
By: Ishaani

In today’s scenerio, family size is decreasing with the passage of time. Grand parents are considered as the nurture for their grandchildren because both parents are working to survive in this competitive era.

Grandparents occupy a prominent position in the family. In fact, they are the senior most members and considered as backbone of the family. Role played by them are manifold. Their attention to their grandchildren means a lot to them. They spend most of their quality time with their grandchildrens. They give an unconditional love to them. They help in upbringing them by making them vulnerable to their surroundings. They teach them good manners. In addition to this, they teach them valuable lessons through various interesting stories and personal experiences. For instance, they teach them to offer a part of income to almighty or to the poor or needy and donate to charity. They accompany them to walk, trips, parks, temples etc. Their experience is valuable to younger family members. They familiarise the women about various rituals and qualities among people such as brotherhood, humanity, kindness and many more valuable qualities.

Moreover, Grandparents are the mentor, spiritual guide, teacher, care taker, hero of the children. They are cheer leaders in our life. They give them praise, best wishes, blessings, support and encouragement to move on the path/ladder of success. They motivate them to face challenges instead of disappointment. Apart from this, they bring so much to the family life. They can help to stabilize the family environment. They share their wisdom and wealth of experience with us. They add a sense of connection to the chain of humanity. They also provide a whole sense of history, identity and heritage. They can give perfect solutions to most of the problems.

Thus, grandparents play multidimensional roles in our life. Their mindfulness and activities can inspire everyone in the family. So, It is just only a myth that they are burden to the society or family.