Cue Card-20
A person who apologized to you.
1. Who this person is?
- Friend in Canada.
2. When this happened?
- Not long ago.
3. What was it for?
- Trusted someone else.
- Shouted at me.
4. Explain how you felt?
- I felt upset first.
- happy later when it was solved.
1. The person who apologized to me is a dear friend who lives in Canada.
2. This incident happened recently.
3. It was because he made the mistake of trusting someone else more than me and shouted at me when I was right.
4. Initially I was hurt and upset but later I was happy that I got sorted out.
Nobody is perfect all make mistakes but the best thing we can do after committing a mistake is admitting it and apologizing to people who may have been affected by it. I feel people always apologize, when the relationship holds more value than their ego and not to prove someone right or wrong. Not long ago, one such incident happened with me. My close friend who is in Canada, was very rude to me and blamed me for something I had not done. She made the mistake of believing someone who was not worth trusting and told me that I had lied to her, so I wanted to tell her that I would never speak to her again because I hate being blamed for things I don’t do. However, before I could tell her that she sent me a message, apologizing for her rudeness and not trusting me. She told me that she valued our friendship and would always be careful before trusting anyone without verifying the facts. I generally accept apologies and do not take time to forgive others. I decided to end the matter and continue our friendship as if nothing had happened. I feel, we should not hesitate or rethink before apologizing because it is not worth losing a relationship when it can be saved with an apology. We should always be ready to forgive and forget.
Follow ups:
1. Is it important to say sorry? (I think, saying sorry is very important because if a person makes a mistake, an apology is the least that is expected from him/her.)
2. In what situations do people say sorry? (People say sorry when they hurt someone, fight, forget something important or break someone’s trust.)
3. Why do some people hate to say sorry? (A few people hate to say sorry because they feel apologizing is not worth compromising with their ego.)
4. In what situations should we apologize immediately? (In situations where we hurt someone, damage someone’s belongings etcetera we should be sorry immediately.)
5. When was the last time you found it hard to accept an apology? (I normally never find it hard to accept apologies because when I commit a mistake, I also expect people to forgive me. So, I easily forgive others.)
Proverb: Forgive and Forget.
Meaning: We should forget the hurt and forgive the people who cause the hurt or pain.
A person who apologized to you.